Recent content by Bustamove42086

He always wanted to take lots of pics of us in the beginning, just us, and I thought it was for us to watch and Send people we were talking together . I didn’t know he was taking pics for his portfolio to get laid by as many women as he could

I feel like the only reason he came clean about the people he did was because there are way more things he’s hiding and lying about. And he gaslights me like crazy, I have no energy and I’m sad and keep hoping he will Give me the whole story, because I feel like I fell in love with a lie as...

Without my knowledge, and I only found out because after I told him I knew about him and the girl we’d had threesome with he handed over his phone for the first time ever and for like 3 minutes before grabbing it. Hed forgotten he he had the convo on Instagram still, and I also found a...

Speaking from experience, I wouldn’t take his word about what they’re texting about, and I think it’s more than reasonable to want to talk to her and establish yourself as his partner before he does anything with her. If it’s just about sex for them, both should be fine confirming that to you...

I just don’t get why he lied and drove me crazy when he could have just been honest from the beginning. I slept with someone in the beginning because I sensed he wasn’t going to be exclusive to me and I told him about it and got judgement. He had so many opportunities to tell me, or he could...

Update, I reached out to the third and just asked woman to woman how many times they’d met up after our threesome (he was still insisting they never did). She said twice. So that answers that. Oh and he sent pictures of me going down on him to some woman on Instagram who does webcam, and he...

He does take anything related to sex very personally (if He doesn’t make me cum, which is rare, he acts offended; he loves hearing he’s the best). I just want to feel like we’re on the same page and like he genuinely cares about how I feel and how comfortable I am. He’s always said he does, but...

I appreciate your thoughtful response so much. I haven’t talked to anyone about this aspect of the relationship. I started to with my therapist once but the second I said the word threesome she started to act concerned and judgy so I didn’t discuss it further. With the other people, I meant we...

I don’t know. So far it’s only been casual sex threesomes. He says he’s turned on by the idea of having a mfm with another guy and watching me, and I am definitely interested in trying that. But when I start talking to a guy I find attractive he has no enthusiasm. Seems more and more like it...

He no you’re right, I’m just going off what he said he wanted which was to share it and only talk in group texts

I love him. Like I said, I had no real poly experience before we met, and I don’t know if he gets frustrated sometimes. I’ve told him many times he can talk to other girls if he wants, but he insists he doesn’t want to. Pretty sure he says a lot of stuff like that for my benefit even though I’ve...

Thank you all for the feedback, it’s so good to get any perspective for objectivity sake! We do communicate well.. at least I think we do. We’ve both been through a lot the last two years with aging parents, I was in ICU with kidney failure for a week last Christmas. We like pot so we get into...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. We originally met on a dating app a couple years earlier, when he and his ex girlfriend were looking for a third to join them. I had no experience but was intrigued and talked to them about it for a while. I ended up getting back with my ex...