Recent content by ButterflyQueen

You are a Rock Star.

The questions were really geared for him and how he might go about making this work or not. My unmet needs are very few and I'm an inherently happy girl in general. Probably how I sat there and watched 28 years of a broken marriage fly by. I don't regret a day of our six years together (6 years...

Unfortunately I think your totally valid assumption is that I care at all about Alice. I don't. And none of this is a moral cleansing for either of us. I've not got an ounce of regret in me about our wonderful relationship. It was never about living a more honorable life. It was about finally...

I'm a bit of a word nerd and boy did I love you making sense of my non-sense. The reason that I mention the reality that she might secretly resent anything poly or non-traditional is because they did some swinging early on in their marriage and he finally came around to the fact that she didn't...

It is interesting that I didnt use the word affair. I knew then and all along what it was. Pure selfishness I suppose, because I didn't and still don't consider him any more hers than he is mine. If my husband had been meeting my needs, I would never have sought someone who could. If she were...

OP and married boyfriend of 6 years posting together: Backstory: OP (53F) was in a loveless, vanilla and completely unsatisfying, monogamous marriage for 28 years and decided that she needed some excitement and some decent sex in her life. OP placed a "seeking" ad on Craigslist, pretty much...