Recent content by Cakester

this forum is great, cause these are all good questions and things i need to discuss with my partners. thank you everyone who commented!

been in a poly throuple for about 6 months, and it’s been one of the most healthy and communicative relationships i’ve ever experienced. we’ve had ups and downs navigating our new dynamic for sure, but all in all i’ve been very happy. Two things though have come up recently that i need some...

A friend of mine just got in a polycule (super happy for them!), and was asking me which flag is correct. I googled it, and it seems like the one with the pie symbol is correct, but we're both vibing with this "new" flag (heart and blue pink and purple stripes). Which flag would be more...

Thank you, Kevin! This was super helpful. After reading this I ended up talking to my therapist and then had a conversation with Cal that really helped settle my nerves over everything. I still struggle, of course. Rome wasn't built in a day and all that. But it's definitely one of those things...

Things have been going really well in my poly V/triad (i’ll give the reason for the slash later) relationship, but i come back here needing some advice. Despite the fact that my partners have been amazing, i’ve found myself extremely worried lately that i am going to lose them or push them away...

aw thats rad

I'm in the honeymoon phase with my polycule and have been scouring the internet for cute and relatable memes. Please send me all your cute things! I'm gonna try to embed some of the ones I have so far but I'm newish to the forum so apologies if I goof it up

Luckily all other convos went smooth and now we're "out" to our inner circle! IT FEELS SO NICE!!!!!

Also I had dated/hooked up with a few people in our larger friend circle before, one of which ended not too too long ago. It was a casual thing from the get go, but duder kinda fell for me hard and has been struggling with it since I set boundaries and told them them I just wanted to be friends...

Good question, and honestly, doing it like that would be so nice, but some of our friends are kinda dramatic. Still love them, but yeah, kinda have to handle shit carefully. The document was kinda just a way to, like, not have to explain info over and over again. (Plus I like making documents...

UPDATE: We ended up working things out with the friend who had a negative reaction. Turns out their response was more tied to some abandonment issues around an experience they had with a polycule excluding them during a turbulent time in their life. We had this wonderful conversation where we...

Yes to both! We all met through one particular game and now game together almost every night of the week. We don't plan on telling everyone in the group (at least not right away). We have a smaller group of our closer friends with a private discord and those are the people we're choosing to talk...

ahh ok sorry! I'll go through and edit the post again. I just wasn't feeling super creative name wise lol

thank you! That was super helpful. Based on that the V is for sure what we are.

oh good point. How bout I'm Gee, and they're Jay and Cee. Jay and Cee are boyfriends, and in an already established longer term relationship. Cee and Gee are boyfriend and girlfriend, in a newer relationship. Gee and Jay are super good friends