Recent content by chg2winter

Hi, Seasha, I just did read your message about Beyond The Love. The site is now up and running! http://www.beyondthelove.org/

trust Once trust is lost it is hard to regain. Why do you want to stay with her? What is the motivator for you to stay with someone you don't trust? And if the only reason you are considering poly is because you feel like she is going to cheat on you if you don't...then problems are not...

Welcome to the forums. Hopefully you can find your local real time group as well :)

Billy, Melissa and Jeremy are the producers of the Atlanta Poly event and are activists for the poly lifestyle. We are proud of them and grateful for those who are willing to help blaze this trail. I was at the event two years ago when CNN was there interviewing people. Neat to finally see...

The LGBT community celebrates Coming Out day on October 11. Are you 'out' in your poly life? If you have come out to family and/or friends, how have they reacted? For us, we debated a while before our younger son (17 or so at the time) happened to be putting in an app at the same place my...

We'd be happy to talk to you - we are trying to get the word out about our new poly event (see sig) and would love to share about it on your show. We are not local at all though, so if we could work it it out via skype or facetime? thanks, Dan

pizza I just wrote a blog entry about this not long ago! So I can at least share my view of things... The gist of it "I happen to have sex with people who have sex with other people. Specifically, the two people I currently sleep with(1) also sleep with other people. One of my partners has...

For myself, the part that I am not hearing is his attitude about this. If his attitude is "I know this is hard for you and I appreciate your willingness to let me be my authentic self. How can I help you with get through this?" then I would rely on his help, and ask him to make sure he does...

Food And…Sex Kink Love More might appear to be a blog that reviews restaurants I eat at, and it does do that. But the actual purpose is to act as a mechanism to allow me to express my thoughts, beliefs, desires, sexual tendencies, reflections on BDSM, poly musings, and everything else that makes...

Will the definition help you navigate through it to a point of acceptance or growth? Then use it.

For myself, I would set the tone. I would send the guy one more email, saying, "You seem to have lost interest, and unless I hear from you, I'll assume you have moved on" ... and I'd then move on. But you can only say that if it is true; otherwise you are just manipulating.

My wife and I run a podcast that discusses alternative relationships and such and I'd like to interview someone for the show about getting started in polyamory. Building that foundation between you and your current significant other before you start. With someone who has done it ;) Anyone...

Learning compersion I believe that compersion - the joy we have when our partner experiences joy - is often something we learn (instead of something we are born with). What has been good tools for you to learn compersion? Warmly, Dan

Thank you for the responses. (I have to admit, I expected to get slammed for such crazy talk.) Warmly :) Dan

There is no such thing as jealousy So, one thought I've had lately is that when I am feeling jealous, if I sit with it long enough and am honest with my self, it is really fear. Fear that someone will leave me, or fear that someone is better than I so I won't get something, or fear that I'll be...