Thanks everyone for the thoughtful and thought provoking responses. I posted here in hopes that I would get honest and, frankly, direct/blunt responses and greatly appreciate the fact that's what was done.
I did want to add some additional info. Obviously, we do not have a messy list and...
Hey everyone!
Brand new to this site though me and my husband have been poly for the past 3 1/2 - 4 years (we've been together for 7.) We are also in a 24/7 D/s dynamic and have been since shortly after we got together. Previously he was the only one who dated outside our relationship...