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    Hey, it's me!

    always in mine too darling. and hey, what is 6100km to love anyhow? ;)
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    Hey, it's me!

    Hej PB, long time no see ;) I am so glad to see you here and have you in my life, despite it being 17 years since we last hung out. <3
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    doing it all wrong for so long, one guys 20+ year history of polyamory....

    continued My Fourth Poly Relationship In Seattle I began to openly identify as bi-poly-kinky. I even started going to Center for Sex Positive Culture events and rapidly found myself with a poly primary with whom I moved in with shortly after. At this time I had a job that kept me traveling...
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    doing it all wrong for so long, one guys 20+ year history of polyamory....

    WARNING, this is a massive missive of one guys attempts at polyamory over the past 20+ years. This is not a pretty story, there is no fairy tale happy ending here, but there is a multitude of mistakes and limitless lessons to be shared. This is me, I am a 39 year old male, who identifies as a...
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    Complicated.. (when isn't it?)

    I think Redpepper said it all so very well that I cannot improve or add much more than a "seconded" to her response.
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    Complicated.. (when isn't it?)

    Everyone reacts to NRE differently and the times for the NRE to subside and the initial WOW feeling to wear off varies with individuals. If you are having nervous feelings about this, maybe you could try a big group meeting with those that you will be moving in with. Call it practice for...
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    Discussion: Who is expected to change in a mono+poly relationship

    yeah, i was not really going for coding. but more of an "acceptance of 1 is a part of the set of love." like weak set theory in half assed algebraic expression. and yeah it has been decades since algebra for me, and I havent coded anything in a few years either.... :)
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    whoot! hey you! nice to see you! <3

    whoot! hey you! nice to see you! <3
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    Discussion: Who is expected to change in a mono+poly relationship

    thanks, I am tempted to refine it to something like: acceptance(1) = [love] but that is the XKCD fan in me bothering over the math. I also agree that once we get over our cultural conditioning then whatever we can dream and visualize is our limitation. I was having a conversation today with...
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    New Mono Here and New to Poly

    Ladyintricate, Welcome! I would first like to applaud your courage to stand up here and open yourself up here in this forum. You are brave and open minded, much respect to you for taking this step for yourself and your relationship with your husband. I am not in your position of being a...
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    Discussion: Who is expected to change in a mono+poly relationship

    Poly-Mono relationships is not about change, but acceptance. I tend to agree with several of the responses in this thread. I am in a V with two monogamous women. Both of them are into me and accept that I do commitment and relationships a bit differently than what they are accustom to...
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    Long term poly, american, living in Sweden

    Thanks! Poly is not as widely known about or accepted here. Though the scene is growing, and very understanding and accepting of all types of people. It all sort of reminds me of the way it was in NYC in the mid 90s.
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    Long term poly, american, living in Sweden

    Hi, My name is Chris and I am a fairly "long term" poly person. I am an American but have been living between Sweden and the US for most of the past decade, the last two consecutively here. I have spent most of my adult life being polyamorous, but did not receive a proper introduction to it...
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