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NYCindie, in part, yes, sex. The event I referred to was BDSM in nature. So when I say play I mean it in that sense. That, of course, can be sexual, and/or lead to sex, but not necessarily. The primary reason for the open relationship was to be able to “vent," i.e., explore sexually where one...

Vinccenzo, yes, I "feel" like he cheated. Yes, I am wounded by his gloating. However, he is not malicious, and I don't think he ever intended to hurt me. I think he fell in love before he realized the situation had changed into something different than what we'd agreed upon. One cannot help...

Galagirl, I like the distinction of "freedom to" vs "freedom from." With that perspective in mind, I guess what I want is "freedom from" my emotional hang-ups. Logically, this could work. My brain understands the polyamory concept. I am not uneducated in the principles. (I am not implying that...

Please forgive me if this is covered somewhere, or if I have posted incorrectly. I have never done this before and I am finding it overwhelming. I will try to be concise. My partner and I agreed to an open relationship. I had reservations at first, but it seemed to work out fine. I had no...