Recent content by confusedinlove

I have some research to do! Thank you both for the resources and advice. I so appreciate the feedback!!

Ravenscroft, thank you! I know I'm conflicted. I'm afraid. I'm afraid to lose my boyfriend. I'm afraid to lose new guy. I don't know what I want and I'm definitely struggling. Realistically, I don't think I can cut off new guy. I don't want to. I also don't want to hurt my current relationship...

Lunabunny, thank you so much for this thoughtful response. We have discussed boundaries with both current and new guy, but it's very new to us so there have already been some conversations and I imagine many more will follow. We haven't so much discussed expectations recently, but my current guy...

Hi there. Let me start off by saying my boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 years. We recently went looking for engagement rings and have always talked seriously about marriage and kids. We have good and bad times like I'm sure everyone has, and recently moved across the country for a...