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Thanks for your reply. Your last sentence is exactly what I feel like saying, but I’m worried that this is based on my short term feelings following my wife’s recent actions and my discovery of them rather than being what is right for us and our relationship.

Thanks Openbook - glad I didn’t offend. I’m terrible for getting into ideological arguments in real life too! Spent too much time studying philosophy I’m afraid! Very happy to agree to disagree!

Sorry to be blunt. But that needed calling out. I do really appreciate the other points you both made though. Thank you.

I’m sorry, but that’s just nonsense. My wife feels the same negative way about me seeing women. The only way you can intellectually and honestly dismiss the visceral thing as being “about patriarchy and ownership” is if it only applies to men. My personal experience is that this is not correct.

Thanks for your very fast reply! I did a lot of reading on ENM back when we agreed to do it. I bought a copy of that book and read it cover to cover twice (I thought it was really good). To be honest none of it resonates with me - that’s not to say I disagree with it particularly, it’s simply...

Hello, I’m a straight man married to a bisexual woman. We are both in our mid 40s. A couple of years ago, partly to address our own sex life issues (which it did), and partly to give her room to explore her same sex attraction which she’d suppressed in her younger years due to a highly...