Recent content by Csmarie

I've been the girlfriend to a married couple for 4 years now. July 20th was our 4th anniversary. It wasn't celebrated at all. She had forgotten the date, and he decided to not say anything about it despite knowing the date. So, I'm really hurt by this. Every year I am the one that makes a big...

But see, our relationship is different. I enjoy helping her around the house. I enjoy taking care of her and making her feel beautiful. And our relationship is not about sex at all. Sex is extremely rare, as she already has a very low libido. She's already brought up how she'll be fat and we...

I have never once made her feel bad about wanting to have a child. I want her to be happy. I love her with my everything I have. And if she wants a baby she should have one. All I am doing is trying to figure out what my part is in the relationship once a baby comes along.

At that point in time it was discussed because she had no desire to have a child of her own.

Anybody? I really need advice before I end up walking away from the people I love.

I should mention that when we discussed my longing to have a family in the future, she had said that we could discuss it when we get there, and that they could help me find a sperm donor, or possibly discuss my having his baby. I understand that they are married, and I am coming into their...

It was brought up to me today, and kind of took me by surprise, as the last I knew, she was not interested in having children. At one point it was discussed that perhaps when I was ready, he and I could have a child. But her desire to have a child seemed to come out of the blue. I told them that...

I don't live with them currently. Three months ago they invited me to move in, but I was dealing with some personal issues at the time and turned them down. If they asked again, I would live with them in a heartbeat.

I have been a part of a triad with a married couple for over three years now. We have had the commitment discussion, and have agreed that we are all a family together. They have been together for 15 years. They want to try to get pregnant. I'm worried that my part of the relationship will...