Recent content by Dagferi

Your partner is a sloppy hinge. He is an ass. The first time a partner would share personal details with another partner I would bounce. I never ever share TMI details with Butch about Murf and I’s sex life despite him wanting to know. Murf is not comfortable with that and I respect him and...

As someone who has 3 grown kids and has been pregnant 6 times. I wouldn’t end the relationship yet. Right now you feel like shit. You body is going through a lot. In a few weeks or months that may change. Good poly relationships have the ability to go with the ebbs and flows of life. Mine...

OMG 😱 Sending healing vibes.

I haven’t really been around much either. I just pop in once and a while and read some threads. Congrats on the business. You are seriously talented. I feel you on the growing lumps in multiple places. So far I have had a cancerous polyp in my duodenum and multiple in my colon. A hamartoma the...

The simple solution is to maintain separate residences. I have two mono husbands who have no interest in cohabitation with each other. I split my time between the homes I own with both. They both know each other, but would rather have a parallel existence, instead of KTP. It has worked just...

Yes I have two separate houses one with each partner. Has been that way for over a decade and it works for us. Just don’t post a lot because life…

If I were to use cannabis, legal in my state, or not, because it is federally illegal, I would lose my professional licenses as a veterinary technician and insurance claims adjuster. (I am licensed in all the states that require an insurance adjuster to be licensed.)

As someone who now works insurance, I got licensed as a P&C insurance adjuster 18 months ago, please check your homeowners coverage. Cheaper policies mean less coverage. Also make sure you have the proper riders for the unusual situations. My house which I bought for less than a new car is...

Holy shit. I am sorry you went through all of this.

For me polyamory is a relationship style not a sexual orientation. Sexual orientation to me is a person's identity in relation to the gender or genders they are attracted to sexually.

I worry about a woman who things that bringing a child into the world while living in a gutted caravan with a bunch of dogs in cats is a healthy decision. This poor kid is going to watch it's father go back to his nice house and comfy life with his wife while they are living in the rough.

How will you feel when you best friend and your husband get consumed by NRE? When she will be new and fun for your husband and his focus will be on her?

My husbands like parallel poly. They have very little if anything to do with each other. In fact they haven't seen each other face to face or spoken in several years It does not mean they cannot or would not reach out to each other if something happens to me. It does not make one secondary...

If I may ask why the search for a triad? The are one of the hardest poly configuration to maintain. Why the need for everyone to be involved with everyone else? I am the hinge in a MFM vee. My relationships are separate but equal. My husbands have little to do with each other. I own property...

I am married to both my husbands. One I have a legal marriage to. It is so I can received his pension and be on his health benefits. The other I had a commitment ceremony with. I own separate property with both. I have legally protected both in my will. Both have medical power of attorney.