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After recent visit Ok gang so i'm back with a new update. A few days before Dot went to go get Dood we had another discussion on how everyone was feeling about everything. During the conversation Dood asked if i wanted to go with Dot to pick up him ,and we all have a family outing (our kids...

Inyourendo...i understand what you are saying ,but i believe you misunderstood what i was saying. I haven't been trying to be the go between my wife & dood. Ill listen to her concerns ,and what not ill give her my advice ,and how i look at the situation although ive made it clear to her that...

Thanks Kevin. After all the talks about separation and divorce when this started i had a wake up call. Ive always treated Dot special ,but over the past few years we've gotten very relaxed in how we dealt with each other because i was always so busy with work ,and her with the boys. When i would...

Kevin I really appreciate your input as well as some others that have contributed prior. Using this as a place to vent frustrations, fears, triumphs ,and such while getting feedback on it has helped immensely with this process. Dot has even told me that since i've came on here she has noticed a...

Ive also noticed how much shes been trying to go out of the way to make things special between him & her yet she doesn't do these things with me ,and i feel like i'm missing out something. She was telling me how she wrote him a poem...she wanted to make him a picture of her that said i love...

Update 2 So here is what has been going on as of late... Things for a good bit were going great. She hadn't been talking to Dood as religiously throughout the day as she was. He's also been helping with that by letting her go to do other things (i never said anything to him about their time on...

So i took Dot to her therapy yesterday. I originally planned to just hang out in the waiting room while playing a game but she offered almost insisted I sit in on the session. So I did...although it was kind of an unproductive session for her because they went through more paperwork updating...

Yeah it is thank the god/goddess. Dot has a therapy appointment tomorrow ,but im going to drive her there because this will be the first long trip since the repair ,and i want to make sure she'll be safe.

Yeah Dot decided we should all have a talk last night to get everyone on the same page so it was actually nice to have the back and forth between him, her ,and i. She was texting him today ,and i told her to just call him then she mentioned me talking to him as well i told her to just talk to...

Well Jane & Emm to each's own..everyone works differently ,and this still all very new to us ,and still a learning experience. I discussed my concerns with DOOD last night ,and then we all discussed them together. He even said there isn't anything thats really been said that she should be...

Since we are all close i dont care what she tells him about what we do. i know she tells him about what we do in bed & shit. We've all been in bed together via his last visit so theres no secrets there. Plus Dot & I are both very open about expressing our love/sex with others as we are proud of...

I've told her already so far how ive been feeling about their status ,and how it makes me feel like i'm touching someone elses woman to which she replies not to feel that way as thats not how it is. And, i told her last night i felt like she had something hide from me with him because she was so...

Yeah i agree Kevin...I'm never saying certain aspects of what she wants with this ,or what she wishes i would do aren't going to ever happen. Somethings may happen ,and others may not ever although the thing is its at the very least its a "not right now maybe later". Even DOOD & I discussed that...

I got a longer response that i will write later ,but i want to respond to both central & Inyourendo.. I can agree with you guys ,and this has been part of our discussions already. The thing is i know where my heart is ,and its with her. I know i can enjoy another woman's company ,and attention...

Thanks Kevin for your input... Yeah i totally agree with the whole NRE thing ,and she does have moments when her head gets back on straight ,and she starts talking with some sense.. Maybe its time to give a lil insight on my wife & DOOD as this might help you guys understand what i'm dealing...