Recent content by DragonMan

Ouch...I must have found the troll that I was warned about. Another woman. Lovely. Your defense of the argument I presented still lacks logic. You got a lot of mean words.....quite vociferous.....same themes. Envy....lack. Anything subastantial?

"Do you realise what a misogynistic bunch of crap that sounds like?" Yes....I do. It's progressive reality based analysis of facts....and I realize(?) you are wrong. " If you think your wife has no sympathy for your situation, then that's a separate issue altogether. " Yes...it is...*shrug*...

Green Acres, I am reading and digesting the advice from all. As for the demographics you speak of....I would posit that EVERY man is a natural poly and that the female poly is by and large an extreme rarity. This is the entire point! Are you so insulated from reality that you cannot at least...

Okay….sorry for the huge post….but it is next to impossible to discuss these issues in short ‘sound bites’. Fallen Angel, If I seem defensive, it is because I am using ‘devils advocate’ in response to the arguments presented about my particular situation. You ask “tell us what you'd really...

I am also not sure it is healthy or will last very long if only one partner ever crosses the finish line...lol. Sorry....that was a bit shallow, yet....there it is. Greeter.....Thanks for the effort and advice. I also have of late come to the same conclusion.

opalescent, I totally agree that the male/female availability issue is cultural/societal more than anything else. You make valid points and I agree with much of it. Don't get me wrong.....I have done much soul searching regarding my own feelings about our situation. Am I being selfish? Am I...

Official Greeter, Thanks for the warm welcome. Too bad I live in such a remote and conservative part of Oregon or I could take some of your good advice....:( BTW - Have been through Yelm....nice area. Your V relationship sounds fulfilling to both you, your other and your others lover. My wife...

Green acres, It is not about, as you put it, a tit-for-tat issue. I also can meet new and interesting females.....but when the subject of any possible relationship comes up, women will pull back ( usually judgmental/horrified/flabergasted that a married man would even consider such a thing, and...

Beware the journalist. For they almost always have an agenda that is pre-determined before they begin investigating a story. Example....Fox news....Fair and Balanced.....Bwahahahhahaaaaaaa

Angel, Fair questions. Perhaps an expansion of your work analogy might explain the unfairness that I feel I am experiencing. Let us say that both her and I started a company....a partnership. Each brought their skill set to bring success to the partnership company. But I pay myself alll of the...

Hello all, My name is Doug. I am happily married to a wonderful woman with six adult children, all but one living on their own. R and I have a great relationship that has included 'encounters' with others over the years. My first issue, in brief: As a good looking and outgoing female, my wife...