Recent content by DrDrosselbart

wow, this became longer than i had originally planned, but it feels really good having written it. it was a good decision to come here. i'm sooooooo thankful for all of your support and help! thank you very much. i can't say it enough^^ i still have so many questions. like, do any of you...

first of all, thank you all for responding and sharing your knowledge with me! i appreciate it very much. some time has passed since i've created this thread and quite a lot has happened since then in my relationship with my gf (let's refer to her as Bebe) and in her relationship with Kouhai...

I'm very new to this as well but maybe this helps: During two seminars, I learned about the theory and practiced Nonviolent communication which helped me a lot in conflict resolution: accessing, understanding and expressing ones own feelings and needs, as well as trying to emphasize with the...

Thanks for the advice, I'll change them right away! [Edit: I forgot you couldn't edit posts after a while anymore. I'll start with nicknames in the future.] Yeah, I really wanna learn compersion. And I truly am happy for her. It's just this weird feeling in my stomach. It's definitely not a...

A taste from far away and long ago :) I love to cook, it is practically the only creative activity of mine, and not so very creative at that, because I usually prepare meals I've already cooked before. There are a couple of favorites and I'm going to share a real classic with you, my own...

What's it like, being turned into a Scalemate? My name is borrowed from the promo version of a German rap song. I chose it, because I really like the song (who would've thought) and because I like my native language a lot. It's fun to play around with languages and the hip-hop crew who made...

My gf and I have often watched porn together to get aroused and sometimes it was quite hard to find something we both liked^^ it didn't damage our relationship in any way. it was actually quite nice to watch porn together, just like almost everything else is nice if done as a couple. on several...

Thanks for the heads-up! Yeah... I guess the post wouldn't have been that much misplaced. I dunno. I wasn't sure if it really fit in there. I think I'll just start reading some of the posts in the poly relationships corner to get a little impression of how the original posts are written and...

hi, I'm DrDrosselbart (you may call me DrD or Bart for short or whatever you like), 27yo, university student from Germany. I first came into contact with the concept of polyamory about 3 years ago via a university seminar about philosophical views of love concepts throughout history. from that...

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hi, i'm a 27yo university student from Germany. I've been in a steady relationship with my gf for the last 5 years. my gf and i have been open-minded towards polyamory since we first learned about it (about 2 years ago). I think that it is the most accepting and respectful form of relationship...