Recent content by Dreamcatcher

oh, ok. Thank you Leetah, for clearing that up. I guess I'm feeling that a V works well for me. I want to be realistic, but most of all, true to myself.

OK, so what's the difference between a V, and a FMF triad? I'm not trying to force anything.. I'm just wanting to think about what would really make me happy, and then try and create that in my life. :) I can tell you what hasn't worked, and that is trying to live in a traditional monogamous...

Thanks for sharing. I sent this to my current sig. other. She loved it. She is not poly, and that presents a big challenge for me. I hope she might come around, but I don't know if she will. I sure like her alot, but I have to be true to myself that I'm just not made for monogamy. :confused:

LOL, 490 I just realized that I titled this thread the number of the captcha haha shows what a newb I am I guess

Hello Heidi, I'm brand new to the forum too, so take what I say with a grain of salt. I would say, talk to your husband openly about your anxiety. Explore with him what is casuing you to be anxious. Maybe you need more reassurance from him. You mentioned you have anxiety regarding if...

I love Shel Silverstein. This story gives me hope. And the concept we grow together in relationships, and roll along with each other... that is beautiful and true.

Hi, I'm Joe and I just joined. A little story about me. I'm 42 and have been divorced 3 years ago. I tried so hard to make the monogamous thing work. It didn't and I hurt myself and hurt the hearts of two women that I dearly loved. My wife was not really a very passionate woman. My...

1st post: Personal summary Hello! I'm Joe and new here. I am 42, and was divorced 3 years ago. I tried very hard to make a monogamous relationship work, but I finally have come to the conclusion that I have to face who I am. I do not do the monogamous thing very well. I have too much love...