Recent content by Dreamsofexpansion

This is excellent advice, and something I've thought about. I'm curious. Is this ever a valid need: "I need your escalation with your other partner to be at a slower pace"? I know that this focuses on Water's relationship with Kayak, and ultimately is a request to adjust their behavior, instead...

Thank you for responding. Honestly, just seeing that someone read this and responded feels lovely. We don't live together, but we have talked and fantasized about living together. That being said, I have definitely been the more excited partner when it comes to buying a house together. We are...

Hey all, I'm a 36 yo old cis het male in the Midwest. I've been practicing ENM with my partner of about 2.5 years for about 6 months now. She started dating someone immediately and their relationship has escalated very quickly. The transition has been hard for me, as ENM is a more of a...

Hello Everyone, FIRST POST I (36 yo cis het male) discovered a thread on here through a Google search that I found helpful, so I thought I’d ask for some support in a situation I’m navigating. Backstory: My partner, we’ll call her Water, and I have been together for over two years. We began...