Recent content by electo

They are definitely hard questions, but also ones that I must look into. Thanks for your reply!

Great point! I've told this to my wife many times in hopes of priming her for a conversation in the future. Also, you're right, the therapist didn't TELL me, it was more of a suggestion as to why I might be acting and feeling the way I do.

Thanks for sharing your story! Sounds as if getting my wife involved in my thoughts is definitely the route to go... who would've figured right? lol

Very true... thanks!

A second opinion wouldn't hurt, but as someone here mentioned, I should start by reflecting on what I truly want. Thanks for the input!

Very great point! This hit me deeply, I will definitely take the time to think about these questions. As far as the communication goes about the addiction, it's not necessarily open. She want's to be able to be there for me, to help me, but she doesn't know how to. To be honest, I don't know how...

Thanks for your words! Yeah, I gotta figure this out... -electo

Wow, although I already knew this, It hits differently when reading it coming from someone else. I truly and deeply appreciate your time in writing that out. You are right, and that terrifies me and breaks my heart... I guess I'll start by having a conversation of how I feel. She already knows...

Thanks for the reply. You're right, it's not healthy... but how can I break it off? We've been married 3 years, together for 9 years. Is this a personal issue? Is there a way to fight how I feel? Or am I really going to have to lose the love of my life? I just don't know... again, thanks for...

Hello everyone! I am a 28 year Latino male, married, and am currently a senior at University. I am so conflicted. My marriage is based on monogamy and I recently learned that monogamy might not be for me. After speaking with a psychologist, it seems as if I am innately wired to be with or...