Recent content by Elise

You might be on to something. My husband said something similar. I suppose I don't want to close off possibilities with either lifestyle. However, I do believe my thoughts (as I have said previously) are a bit juvenile and that may be why sex seems to be on the forefront of this adventure for...

Husband has a date and more... So my husband has a date Thursday with a straight poly woman. It seems he is being drawn to women who far exceed his educational background (he is a grad student, so he is educated) and he says that it intimidates him a little bit. He is excited about it though...

If we were all the same what a boring place the world would be. :-) Welcome to the forum! I am super new on this forum as well. The support and straightforward opinions here are an invaluable resource.

Learning learning The more I read about poly the more I can see what a juvenile view I have of everything. I suppose knowing that about myself is half the battle. I think my insecurities were causing me to create a requirement so specific that we would be single forever or be dating a robot...

It's been a great experience in this forum. So much helpful information. I'm glad I found you all. 😊

I had a eureka moment, please enjoy it with me! I found this awesome little piece in another thread. I still feel I need some extra nurturing but! but! but! This post lifted a huge weight from me. I think this is what my husband has been trying to explain to me, however he just wasn't doing it...

Why not find our own partner and if there is a spark, great! Well... I think I might be a little bit intimidated by this. I have emotional issues still to work through. Jealousy and such. My husband went through a very difficult few months and really had to focus on himself for a while...

Thanks for the feedback. I don't really know what you mean by getting his end in? You mean an expectation that he is allowed in our activities if he wants to be? I am a little bit educated about unicorn hunting and I really don't want to be so limited in choosing a female lover. It is a lot to...

I am so very new here on this forum and to the lifestyle. My hubs and I have been talking about it for years but just recently have been trying to do what it takes to make it our healthy reality. I read something in another thread that Lovebunny said about the troublesome situation of...

I am a poly virgin. I'm in a monogamous hetero relationship of 9 years. I have never been in a romantic relationship with a woman, but I have had desires for it for a very long time. My husband and I have talked about opening our relationship many times over the years. Only recently in the past...