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Yeah, I don't get celebrity crushes either, and I'm not attracted to random guys who aren't somehow interested in me. I do have a soft...

Yeah I don't think we have, at least not her. We have always had couple friends, and as a monogomous couple there has been a certain...

Yeah I’ve had plenty of those 😂 my wife would call them that In the lifestyle the best dynamics are probably those type of vibes as...

I'm not sure why Tinwen asked the question, but a platonic crush would be, I think, something like what they call a "bromance." Like...

It's interesting, as a mother of three, myself (they are all grown, and I'm a grandma now), how you managed to do this hotwife dynamic...

Ok maybe ktp is the wrong choice of words. Thanks for the clarification. She does stay at home now. We moved cross country last year...

By KTP, I mean just having a regular relationship and friendship inbetween all of us. She really doesn't want regular hangouts in a...

When we are in counseling, everyone basically says that the "way" we are engaging in the lifestyle is damaging our connection and we...

She has mentioned a lot about being a people pleaser, which is fine. I would always want her to speak her mind and what her needs are. I...

What a nice civilized way of saying "It's my way or the highway."

I appreciate your message, and I definitely see the challenge in going from hotwifing to poly as the biggest stretch. I expressed the...

There was a member here, back in the early days of the forum, named LovingRadiance, who had a husband and a boyfriend, and they all...

I definitely think she likes the thrill of the chase and we have had this discussion quite a few times. Early in our relationship when I...

That is where it gets interesting. I'm sure I overthink some of the things my wife is looking for. I just want to have a full...

Thank you for the correction, I do need to get some of these terms together. We both agree we need to work on these things. Biggest...