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He definently overstepped doing things at work, where daughter could walk in at any time. But for he's always been a proponate of equal rights for everyone. While living in a conservative state, my husband is not conservative and never has been. I own and run a farm based event business, but...

I think you're right. A lot of people seem worried about him being abusive, but in normal day to day life he's not this crazy person. He definently overstepped doing things at work, where daughter could walk in at any time. But for he's always been a proponate of equal rights for everyone...

You touched on so many things, I'm not sure where to begin LOL. I should say that he actually cheated too, he just didn't consider it cheating because he didn't actually have SEX (like OMG, because it didn't go that far, it's less of something :rolleyes:) I'm not scared of him getting...

I think you totally get it. Thank you for the input.

Thank you, you're probably right. Just new at all this and need to relax. I feel like I stay pretty relaxed about it. My husband on the other hand gets super up tight when things actually happen (for me), but calms down a day later and says to keep going with it. Just frustrating right now.

Still new to this whole open marriage thing. Trying to establish rules. While I understand what works for one, Isn't going to work for everyone, I am curious what others have set for rules. Aside from safe sex, what rules do you have in your open marriage?

A few years back I had an affair and ended up telling my husband about it. I stopped the affair and we worked on our relationship. Eventually my husband started telling me we should put me on a dating site and try an open relationship. I resisted at first, but eventually said OK to it. After...