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Seriously I don't even know anymore....

Thank you all so much. I have told them both my wishes and what outcome I would like but the ball is in their court and they need to sort it out. I'm stepping back. They know how I feel and what I want and that they are being selfish and childish and stubborn. I'm here when they are ready to...

Mary said that she got to see me any time she wanted to. she wanted more of a relationship with Sam too. and with kids involved. and work schedules. me being away at night during the week isn't an option.

She said that she loves us, but doesn't want to deal with relationship bs right now. I don't want to lose her. Deep down Sam doesn't want to lose her either. I would love to put the two of them in a room and lock the door and not let them come out till they either kiss and make up and come to an...

I am trying believe me.... I have my own anxiety and depression issues to worry about, afraid that if I let this consume my inner self that it will eat me alive and drive me into a deep depression again. Which I can't do... Finding this group as an outlet and an outside source to get information...

detailed information Thanks for all of the replies. You have shed a lot of light on my situation, it would be nice to be able to take all of your advice, but since I had put the post up. A situation has arose. again... using Magdlyn's analogy to make things easier to follow. Me: Wife Sam...

Ok... Background me (bi female)and S (straight male) have been married for 11 years with mutual kids. Had previous girlfriends but nothing serious. M (bi female) has joined the relationship and is sexually and emotionally attached to both myself and S. She is single with kids, living in her own...