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Small update, we plan to meet early next year. I will fly to her country and stay with her for a couple weeks. Possibly NRE fading. She had started dating a coworker around that time (which I felt coincided precisely with her disengaging with our relationship) and she'd expressed having lots...

Not exactly. Only in part, I think. I'm more focused on how to prevent the negative feelings from the past from interfering going forward. For example: Do I treat this as a continuation of the previous relationship, or an entirely new one? Neither seems correct. Do I bring up the past in an...

Because other than the breakup, it was a hugely positive experience for the both of us. Yes, we've been poly for over a decade. They have for at least 7 years that I know of, probably longer. I asked why before and she only said because she misses me. She told me since the past 6 months she...

Not sure, entirely. It's less so about the future, more about the past I spent the last 3 years trying to forget her and never expected to hear from her again. This past month has been somewhat surreal for me. Considering how hard and quickly a lot of my emotions came flooding back I doubt I...

I don't think that can be known. People charge, feelings change, relationships change. None of that is easy to predict. It's a risk all relationships have, not just exes getting together again. I wouldn't demand such guarantees from any partners nor be able to give them myself.

LDR. Long distance relationship.

Ex girlfriend contacted me after 3 years. She ended things back then. I was completely broken afterward. We've been texting back and forth for around a month now. She's hasn't explicitly stated she wants to get back together but it really seems like things are heading that direction. She says...

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