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This mornings developments. So Mrs has been in touch with J this morning (B is still ignoring us both). Apparently it was S there last night, and J does still have feelings for him, and he knows this but doesn't believe that she is really in love with him. B is also unaware of this. She said...

Continued Last week me and J got our first chance to see each other in six months, as B agreed that she could see me. He doesn't trust me, perhaps because mine and J's relationship was more passionate than theirs, and so was very hesitant for a long time time and it took assurances that nothing...

Right I'm just going to type the full history of everything and my current feelings as its been a long time since I've posted anything here and a lot has changed. THIS IS A VERY LONG POST PLEASE BEAR WITH ME! Dramatis personae: *Me *Mrs - my partner of ten years. *J - currently ex-girlfriend...

A bit of backstory (this is covered in more detail in my previous post 'My Poly Puzzle'): Mrs has another partner, A, that she met through a swinging site. They have been seeing each other for about four months now. Feelings have developed between them and they are pretty much exclusive to each...

Thanks for the support guys. I'm going to message her later with Galagirl's idea and see if I get a response. Lilac I understand where you are coming from. I keep remembering all the times we've been together, and thinking that I cant do things like even hugging her or kissing her is horrible...

That sounds like a good idea. i might give it a whirl. Thanks.

Hi. So I have made a few posts before about the complicated poly relationship that me, Mrs, J and B found ourself in, and about how B was unhappy with the whole thing. Well, since then B has decided that he doesn't want to have anything more to do with us. J, as his fiancee, has gone with...

I really appreciate the advice but there is a lot of it and I have a very busy working week but here is a quick reply. You've basically described B's viewpoint as I see it. It is very hard to get him to talk or open up in any way really. Even J has trouble with that and she is marrying him lol...

Right I'll try to answer this but I'm still learning all the terms so bear with me! Apologies have all been made for things in the past. B and me seem to be the ones with trust issues - me over Mrs and A, and B over me spending time with J. B is very emotionally closed and reluctant to talk so...

Hey I had a look at ur brief profile after being caught by ur name and wondered if you wanted to chat? What games do u play?

unfortunately yes the 'number' does seem to still be important in relationships. Mine is significantly lower than all of my partners yet that isn't an issue for me. What annoys me is the disparity between how high numbers are viewed between men and women. women tend to find my low number...

Thats okay my friend I understand. I hope u find your peace with it. With me I am bi so I would like to join in on Mrs meets with other men, I even wanted to join with her and A before what happened as he is curious. But I will admit there is a jealousy thing there. I know B feels it as well and...

I suppose what you decide to do with ur bf depends on what the other girl's reason was for refusing involvement with you and ur SO, and whether you have been in touch with her since. ending his involvement in the relationship may well be necessary but it is also severe. Maybe you should discuss...

Hey everyone. Im posting this description of my poly relationship as I am still very new to this whole thing and struggling with certain aspects of it. Ill try to be as detailed as I can and I welcome any comments or advice offered. I have been with my Mrs for ten years come November. We got...

Thank you for the welcome.