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How does a woman find partners interested in polyandry?

That’s a good point! Lol. I’m currently totally in love with two men, have been in this situation more than once in life, and am finally exploring what I want and what this means for me. I think I am most oriented towards polyandry but I don’t know how to broach it with them and maybe even if...

I agree with you. I like the idea of having multiple partners but them only being with me, which I guess sounds like a harem. I realize it sounds selfish and I don’t want to be selfish.

I I really relate to this. At my core I think my ideal relationship situation would be having multiple men I can be with and in relationships with, but them only being with me. Which sounds a lot like I want a harem of men and I don’t say it often because I feel people think that’s incredibly...

I don’t know. It’s just a new idea to me I think.

Oh maybe I missed a reply. Thanks

I really appreciate that. Thank you so much for the information. I do feel like I could be in love with more than one, and have been multiple times in my life, but I’m honestly not sure I would be ok with them being in love with someone else besides me. That makes me unsure of whether I would be...

That’s so true. You’re right! He is big on “these are my needs, I won’t compromise my needs” so its like big no on poly because of his needs, which is fine. But why he makes me feel like a bad guy for even being open to it or questioning I don’t understand. My current boyfriend at least doesn’t...

Thank you so much for this. Really needed to hear that. I’m feeling a lot of pressure from new crush to decide between current bf and him (he keeps saying he doesn’t want to feel like he has to convince me to be with him, which I understand). it’s just all a lot right now. I really appreciate...

I see what you mean. I think realistically I would need to be at least somewhat open to a partner being able to have other partners as well, if I was able to have other partners. It’s so confusing trying to determine if I should insist on having an actual poly relationship in the future or not...

Even if I wasn’t necessarily comfortable with my partner being with other people?

I really appreciate your insight, thank you! Do you think the fact that I’ve been in love with more than one person at once multiple times in my life is an indicator that polyamory suits me better than monogamy? Or is it just a thing that happens to people sometimes? It’s a little hard for me to...

I really appreciate that and thank you for your kindness. I know the current situation isn’t going to work in this regard, but I guess what I’m really wondering most is if the fact that I’ve been able to be in love with multiple people at the same time (more than once in my life) is a sign that...

Thank you so much for your insight.

Hi all, I ended up here because I really have nowhere else to go and I could really use some insight. I’ll try to be brief, but here’s my situation: I’m a 37 year old female in a long term relationship with a male, but I have recently found myself falling deeply in love with someone else. It has...