Recent content by GreenT

I know. 😔 I completely understand why you say that. I feel like I can't walk away.

Update: I did step away. I did take some time. We had lots of discussions and arguments. Yet... I'm still in it. He has apologised for many things, past and present, says he wants to be better, wants to be free in how he feels, wants to move forward. He has plans. He stated that he has blown...

I have mentioned dating others while we did this. He said he wouldn't stop me but he wouldn't like it and would hurt if i did.

When he approached me, it was in complete secret. She knew nothing at all. This went on for a few weeks maybe. By this time we were sleeping together daily. He was making excuses to leave the house to see me. Then he told her - he still loves me and wants to explore his feelings for me. He said...

I didn't walk away. He kicked me out of the house and took our child off me. The house was in his name and is military even though it was filled with all of the contents of my house! I never got any of it back. I started court proceedings against him over custody of our child as he was acting...

Thank you, everyone. I have decided to take a time out on it all and think on things. You all make very valid points. I think I needed to hear from independent people. I am limiting contact with him for the meantime, until I decide what is best to do. He has since messaged to say I have hurt...

I appreciate all your responses. Thank you. I will keep updating the thread. I have gone through all of these thoughts and feelings over and over. There have been arguments and it's certainly not been plain sailing. The fact I haven't told my family or my friends about this either-- I know they...

My ex and I ended our relationship terribly, with lots of high intense emotions. There was no cheating; we had just reached a breaking point with each other and we ended it suddenly, for many reasons, to elaborate on later, if needed. After being at war for 10 or so months (child custody...