Recent content by gvrnmtwrng

can you elaborate why in a community and lifestyle that is based around mutual trust and respect, sneaking around (the exact opposite of trust and respect) is ok but questioning it is not? yes i have, before she even began to believe he might be interrested. i was saying this for a while. who...

Magdlyn, "Has he declared he wants to kidnap her and ride her off into the sunset, just the two of them?" No. he did not declare that he wanted to date her either, but here we are. I would love to be happy for her dating, for her to be happy however that comes about. There is no other way for...

Yeah, that's what happened. And I don't want to be like that. I love her and want to see her happy. With this guy is the issue I'm getting caught at. I've been saying to her that he wants her for his own, and I still have that in the forefront of my mind. I firmly believe he doesn't just want...

Hi Evie, thanks for responding. i will try to answer the best i can i really THOUGHT it was just flirting, i didn't think he was really going for it. this is hindsight. he has known us for a while and knew we were not open to new romantic relationships. i say tactics because she was...

we are 13 years into the lifestyle and love it. i (M 48) have been married to L (F 48) for nearly 21 years now. 13 years ago our best friend finally left her emotionally abusive husband. i joked about becoming the next sister wives show, to which L said "i would do that with M, who will treat...

Hi everyone, Let me explain the title. I (male 48) have been married to my wife L (female 48) for nearly 21 years. We were swingers from the beginning, but one person, M (female 44) became our best friend. 13 years ago, M left her emotionally abusive husband. I joked about the Sister Wives...