new but not new

[gvrnmtwrng]

Hi everyone,

Let me explain the title. I (male 48) have been married to my wife L (female 48) for nearly 21 years. We were swingers from the beginning, but one person, M (female 44) became our best friend. 13 years ago, M left her emotionally abusive husband. I joked about the Sister Wives show, "She can be the sister wife," to which L said, "I would do that with M."

L and I are straight, but M is bi.

13 years later, we are a V with me as the hinge. We have 4 kids, 2 with L, and 2 with M, but all mine.

 

[Evie]

Hi and welcome! Sounds like a lovely polycule. Thanks for joining us here and introducing yourself. Your knowledge will be really welcome by people who often ask questions like, "what about kids?"
I'm guessing you're all cohabiting? Or have you gone full Big Love (the tv show) and have adjacent houses with adjoined back yards?

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings gvrnmtwrng,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have a really cool V, I hope that continues for many years to come. I did look at your other thread, and responded there briefly.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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