Evie was just making the statement for other's who are reading this, that you live in Arkansas since you didn't put that in yourself. Not everyone knows where Benton is, I didn't. So now anyone reading your post will know exactly where you are.
Hotwifing or "cuckolding" is a wonderful lifestyle but you have to have a strong marriage and trust, a strong bond that will likely never break. Honesty is the number one thing, always talk to each other, even if it's about something that may be bothering you (or her). There should be no secrets...
I have been a cuckold for over 16 years. My gorgeous wife (who used to be a model for many years) cheated on me because I'm very tiny and a terrible lover. Yes, I admit that, and have learned to accept it.
I found out about it, but decided to see how often she was seeing him, which I discovered...