Wife has fallen in love with her lover and I think it's wonderful

Happy Cuckold

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I have been a cuckold for over 16 years. My gorgeous wife (who used to be a model for many years) cheated on me because I'm very tiny and a terrible lover. Yes, I admit that, and have learned to accept it.

I found out about it, but decided to see how often she was seeing him, which I discovered was many times a week. I was confused and hurt at first, but after about a week of thought, I understood why it was happening. Deep down, I knew I was terrible at sex, and never gave her an orgasm, except the odd one, orally. I found myself oddly aroused at the thought that another man was penetrating and inseminating my pretty wife, and masturbated to those thoughts a lot. I confronted her one evening, after much thought, and she broke down crying, asked for forgiveness, and promised to never see him again.

I stopped her and explained that I understood why she did it, and asked if she still loved me. She hugged me and kissed me and told me that she could never love anyone like the way she loves me, but she needs the sexual closeness, the passion and orgasms which she got from him. I asked her to keep seeing him.

To make a long story short, I met him, explained my thoughts, and he thought it was great, as she did, of course. lol

He got her pregnant when her BCPs failed. That shocked me and scared me at first. But again, for some reason, I thought it was great. She lost the fetus about 7 weeks into the pregnancy and they broke up about 2 months later. It never happened again with any other lover.

6 years ago and several lovers later, she met another man who really turned her on, and they are still together. He's married. His wife is aware of his affair and doesn't mind, as long as she never meets his girlfriend. (They do not have sex. She's always disliked it.) They started dating and things got even better between them. Our relationship was very good so I wasn't concerned. They developed a relationship that moved on to falling deeply in love about a year ago. Again, after being told by them both that they were in love, they offered to stop seeing each other if I felt that it had gone too far. I explained that I felt that our marriage was very strong and didn't think that it would be a problem, and that I felt that being in love only helps to make sex so much better. They agreed.

After they declared their love, she asked me if I would be upset about being cut off of intercourse with her, because she wanted to be exclusive to her lover. Honestly, I had hoped that she would ask me this, and told her that sex with me was boring for her, and really didn't mean much to me anyway, because I knew how terrible I was at it. I have been sex-free since then. I'm happy to just masturbate while listening to them make love.

What I find most exciting is that I feel so much compersion for them. When I see them cuddle and passionately kiss it makes me very happy and, of course, very horny to witness their loving. I love hearing the sounds of her panting, giggles and loud "OH OH OH OH, don't stop baby - Oh I love you baby!" Then the sound that takes me over the end - the loud grunting and groaning as he's inseminating my beautiful wife. I masturbate furiously listening to this. lol

When he stays with us, I stay in the guest room and enjoy the sounds coming from it.

When we sleep together, we never "fuck" or do anything sexual, but we do kiss and hold hands. Sometimes we hold hands all night. We hold hands walking down the street and cuddle as we watch TV together. We make plans for trips and movie nights and more. Most people think we have the best marriage, and some are jealous of our marriage. There are only a few friends who know the truth, and are supportive of us. Two couples we know have even decided to delve into cuckolding, as well, and they are enjoying it.

I would love to know how many other cuckolding couples have much this same type of marriage, and if their marriage as strong as ours. My wife has stated many times that nothing will ever break us up, not even her lover.

His wife has told him that she won't divorce him, but he's welcome to move in with his girlfriend, which he's been strongly thinking about. The three of us have talked about moving him in with us. My wife would sleep with him two weeks and me two weeks every month. That doesn't mean that she won't have sex with him for two weeks, just that she'll "sleep" with us two weeks on and off.

I am a very happy cuckold and I wouldn't want this to change in any way. Going back to the way we were before cuckolding would not be good for either of us.

Thoughts from other cuckolds and wives?
 
Hello Happy Cuckold,

It sounds like you and your wife have a truly good marriage, not a typical marriage, but what you have going works for you. I've never tried cuckolding, but I share my partner with another man (her legal/lawful husband), and that suits me fine. The other man and I are friends. Anyway, thanks for sharing your story.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
My goodness, you are the third cuckold man that has posted here in the past month. I usually recommend that cuckolding fetishists go to Fetlife to share stories. But since you say you love your wife, her bf loves her, and she loves both of you, beyond your sexual fetish, this is a polyamorous V. However, we don't really encourage graphic depictions of sex here. That is not part of the intent of the board. A passing reference to a turn-on is perfectly fine, but writing out long descriptions of sexual scenarios is not necessary. So if that's what you want from other cucks, I'd recommend asking for DMs, or going to Fetlife.

I'm glad things are working out for you, though.
 
Hi! Sounds like you managed to create a good cuckold relationship. You might like the board, ourhotwives, where there are a lot of people with similar experiences. Sexually explicit language is also welcome there. There are a lot of men who would like to be sex-free and love the idea that their wife is exclusive with someone else and only romantically involved with the husband. I understand how you feel. If there is love towards the husband and the connection is strong, then this arrangement can be very attractive, especially if you are not that good in bed.
 
My goodness, you are the third cuckold man that has posted here in the past month. I usually recommend that cuckolding fetishists go to Fetlife to share stories. But since you say you love your wife, her bf loves her, and she loves both of you, beyond your sexual fetish, this is a polyamorous V. However, we don't really encourage graphic depictions of sex here. That is not part of the intent of the board. A passing reference to a turn-on is perfectly fine, but writing out long descriptions of sexual scenarios is not necessary. So if that's what you want from other cucks, I'd recommend asking for DMs, or going to Fetlife.

I'm glad things are working out for you, though.
Thank you Magdlyn, I'm new here and learning. Cheers
 
Hi! Sounds like you managed to create a good cuckold relationship. You might like the board, ourhotwives, where there are a lot of people with similar experiences. Sexually explicit language is also welcome there. There are a lot of men who would like to be sex-free and love the idea that their wife is exclusive with someone else and only romantically involved with the husband. I understand how you feel. If there is love towards the husband and the connection is strong, then this arrangement can be very attractive, especially if you are not that good in bed.
Thank you for the suggestions NKS, I'll check it out and repost there. Cheers
 
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