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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    Exactly. I think I'm still associating previous relationship norms without realizing it. I need to be more conscious about exploring all of this and what it entails.
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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    I agree with you completely. You're 100 percent correct. And I'm going to take a little time to educate myself on things before I inadvertently use offensive labels... I sincerely feel horrible for being so focused on how I was feeling that I didn't think about the bigger picture. Normally I do...
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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    I honestly didn't even think about the wording used, but it being brought to my attention really makes me disappointed for not realizing how disrespectful of a label it is. Thank you for bringing it to my attention. I obviously have a lot of maturing to do while exploring this lifestyle...
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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    Great response. I didn't even realize I was being dismissive of the secondary relationship by labeling it how we did. That would be hurtful, if I was in her situation. Thank you for being so up front about what I'm not understanding. I definitely have some soul searching to do if I am...
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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    My uneasiness was that I thought his backup was only for when I wasn't available, if that makes sense? Meaning that it felt flip flopped bc I was being set aside for her, when I was clear from the jump about not being a "back up".
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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    All great replies and gives me alot to think about... Obviously I have a lot more to learn about myself in order to be confident in my choices, and learning to take the lead in my own love life, whatever that ends up looking like. I think I'm still approaching this from the point of view of...
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    Questions about my role in this relationship... Please advise❤️

    I apologize in advance for my naievety... So, within the passed month I started seeing an attatched man who is in an ethical non menogamous with his wife who lives across the country. This is my first experience with this, and it seems to be what I am looking for in my life right now after...
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