For your clarification:
Absolutely not. It's his birthday this weekend and we have had plans for it for weeks. He has had knowledge of this impending abortion for about a month, and yet he still continued to make plans and arrangements with me and our family for this weekend.
I have no issues...
My husband and I have been exploring poly for over a year now. Recently there's been some tension between us, but we're seeing a poly-friendly counselor and working through it.
My husband abruptly had to cancel plans we had made weeks ago to be with his girlfriend. He was cagey with details...