Recent content by Hereinthedark

Hi Kevin, I guess my experience, so far, is that my profile attracts a lot of poly people. Maybe everyone's does, I don't know. Maybe because I am a quirky person. I guess I have encountered all types of dynamics, from solo to parallel to sounding like he is trying to be poly because his wife...

Texting is, in my case, because we only see each other every few days. I do send more pictures than he does, though it means a lot to me when he sends a photo. He sends more videos to me. haha It may only be once every couple months, but I'm like, never. But he knows how happy I get when he...

Thanks, Kevin. It would be very helpful to chat a bit more. I feel like I hit some barriers in poly dating and then found myself in a place where it just became difficult to know how to proceed from here... And I fear that poly identification gets mistaken for being open to casual sex or group...

Hello, A bit of background to start: I was in a 17-year relationship with the first person I really dated. We were married for 13 years. The final 4 years of our marriage we were more open. We didn't navigate this the best long term, and I do think it was a bit of a stepping stone out of our...

This really hits home for me. My exh and I both started to develop emotionally intimate relationships and we agreed to have a don't ask don't tell (mistake)... Things worked really well for a while. Probably the happiest I have been. Unfortunately, I think my feelings fell more deep in this and...