Recent content by hippielettucesmoker

You are absolutely right. I do want to give them another chance only because they just said they need a little time, they haven’t blocked me or unadded me on anything. So that makes me feel better but still is unfortunate that they wouldn’t want to talk still. I do deserve someone to treat me...

I I know I moved on to fast or haven’t had enough time to grieve. The poly couple said I was their first person they had opened up with together. They said they were looking for a third to join then and I’m guessing potentially form a tri ad. It didn’t seem like it was to be a one night stand...

So my boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago or more bc of him not wanting to have anything related with or practice polyamory. He is a monogamous cis male. I came out to him, almost wanting help or to just learn about it in a way, get him to understand the word and it’s meaning. But we just...

Time for healing for both of us. He let me know he can’t do it not now or never. I wasn’t trying to pressure him just let him know that this was something I felt and had always felt. I’m trying to breathe. I know it will take time.

Thank you, I appreciate it!<3

I understand what you’re saying, however I am trying to open up w my true self, to finally reach bliss and happiness

This is my 3rd serious relationship, and I think you’re absolutely right. I would love for it to land on the good exes and friends but I dont know if he could do it.

I want it to be true. That’s for sure. We were each other’s forever and I don’t understand why my polyamorous self could change that. I suppose since he is 100% monogamous I need to be more open minded.

I haven’t even brought up the idea, I think regardless it would be a no. I’m scared to leave him and I’m scared for him to leave me we are totally co dependent upon each other. I don’t want to go through the whole dating process again either.

I don’t think he wants to adjust to the idea of me being poly, it’s kinda like if I want to pursue it / my feelings he’s done. I’m hurt but I know he’s hurt too and doesn’t understand. It’s just a confusing time and we both are struggling

I recently just came out to my boyfriend of 2 years that I was polyamorous. He says that he can’t be with me if I’m with other people, I want him to understand that he is my one true love but I feel the need to be surrounded by more than one, have more than one connection, he is truly and deeply...