Just as an FYI update to all the lush souls that took the time to reply;
I planned a really lovely way to end things, it was super sad, but then we had a ‘last date’ and went for a meal (also super sad) but it felt so like the wrong choice so then discussed everything in super vulnerable detail...
Thanks, both.
I think I’m gonna gracefully bow out, and wish her the best in the most heartfelt way I can. Maybe this has taught me that poly is more about people being free, and sometimes that’s about letting them go. And also that I shouldn’t be so prepared to sacrifice myself for love...
Hey, new here, would love some advice!
I have been mono for the first 30 years of my life. I have started dating a girl who is in a poly relationship and I’ve fallen madly in love with her. I’m struggling a bit. She and her partner have been together for a year. He was the one who wanted to be...