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    Mono dating/in love with (possible) poly

    Will do, what a supportive forum this is. Thanks all ❤️
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    Mono dating/in love with (possible) poly

    Just as an FYI update to all the lush souls that took the time to reply; I planned a really lovely way to end things, it was super sad, but then we had a ‘last date’ and went for a meal (also super sad) but it felt so like the wrong choice so then discussed everything in super vulnerable detail...
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    Mono dating/in love with (possible) poly

    Thanks, both. I think I’m gonna gracefully bow out, and wish her the best in the most heartfelt way I can. Maybe this has taught me that poly is more about people being free, and sometimes that’s about letting them go. And also that I shouldn’t be so prepared to sacrifice myself for love...
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    Mono dating/in love with (possible) poly

    Hey, new here, would love some advice! I have been mono for the first 30 years of my life. I have started dating a girl who is in a poly relationship and I’ve fallen madly in love with her. I’m struggling a bit. She and her partner have been together for a year. He was the one who wanted to be...
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