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It’s just hard because this is my first relationship that’s been this in depth. She met my family, she loved my family. We were planning on moving in together. I’ve never done that with anyone. I’ve just done a lot w her that I’ve never done, which is why this hurts so much. But idk if I reacted...

I js dk how to feel rn. I don’t even care that i lost him i lost her

Shortly after I made the initial post was when she broke up with me. We broke up around 6:15am, and 3 hours later, she told me, "I can’t choose, so that means him,” because she’s right, if she ultimately truly wanted to choose me, she would’ve chosen me in a heartbeat, but since all the...

I haven’t updated because, well, me and her decided to break up. Well, she broke up with me. It hasn’t been great. Me and her had a conversation from 11pm-6am about the situation. (I should’ve handled this better. I know I should’ve.) Ultimately, she asked me if I was making her choose after I...

Me and my gf share a mutual friend. I met him online abt 4 years ago and we just clicked well. I introduced them to each other not that long ago and they both started to like each other. The conversation of being a polycule came up and he wasn’t opposed to it. I am. He’s 7 hours away. I can’t do...

I explained to her that IF she wants to try and open our relationship up in the future, we’ll have to talk about it first. And if we do have kids like our original plan, they have to be grown up enough to understand, not when they’re toddlers or like young kids. Preteen-teenage is when I’d be...

No, there is not. I said later on in our lives, because we both do want to stick to our original plan of getting engaged, married and then trying to have kids and settle down. Not all right now, of course. But I told her I wouldn’t be able to do all of that with her if she’s wanting to be...

i talked to her about it more and we decided to stay together. I told her I want to be only monogamous right now, but we can be poly, open the relationship up, later on, once we’ve established the relationship. She agreed to that.

I was panicked. I told her that I don’t want to do anything yet, but in the future, I'd be willing to try it. It's just right now we’ve only been together for basically 7 months, and we haven’t had time to establish us yet, and I don't want to introduce anyone into that yet. But she seems okay w it.

I also just feel like I’m going crazy. I don’t want this to cause a strain in our relationship by dampening who she is. But I’m also like, I don’t know what to do. I thought about breaking up with her because I’ve only ever been in monogamous relationships. The initial thought of her fucking...

Going with what you said, me and my girlfriend are both women. I probably should’ve prefaced that at the beginning, so that’s my bad. But no, we’re 2 women. We want to do a sperm donor to have our kids. No, she didn’t spit out her desires at me during an argument, per se. There’s been a lot of...

She had always kinda mentioned the possibility, but when the conversation of her being poly came up, it was during a sensitive topic and she had kinda spit it out. I've always been, as you called it, poly-curious, but I've been cheated on so many times in past relationships that I think a lot of...

To start this off, I have been dating a girl for just over half a year and it’s been amazing. A couple days ago she explained to me that she’s poly and we had a conversation about it. I’ve always wanted to try polyamory but I’ve always been scared to. She’s been this way for awhile. She...