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Well turns out she isn't in a relationship, just seeing a guy :D But I was wondering if it was ok to try and flirt a little even if she was in a relationship (as long as it doesn't seem to bother her of course!)

So I've fallen for this girl. Hard. She was in a semi monogamous realtionship when I met her, but since her partner was transitioning from male to female the hormones screwed up the partner's libido, she was allowed to sleep around when it was getting too hard. So I had a threesome with her and...

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more... Sorry ^^' So on a more serious note, I was wondering what love is exactly (duh!), what makes it different from friendship. The only thing I think makes it different is feelings. There's that "living together and having babies" thing that people tend...

Things are going great so far. They still don't act differently from before, so for now all is good. And it seems that Friend is starting to get feelings for me, because of the way he looks at me sometimes, wich is awesome because I feel the same way too! :D I feel like the happiest, luckiest...

Well, one of the guys I'm seeing is one of his closest friends, so I guess kitchen table, but he doesn't want to meet the others, so it's a bit of parallel too... Though he explained to me that he doesn't want to meet them simply because he gets anxious about meeting new people. He also felt...

So my boyfriend and I are new to polyamory. He's hetero while I'm a bisexual woman. I'm allowed to be with both women and men (and they don't have to date/have sex with him), so I wouldn't call it a one penis policy, but if I'm with a man he doesn't want to see it, or traces of it -kissing...

Rats! <3 Two adorable little girls, Pixie and Dot. There are a lot of misconceptions about rats, they're actually cleaner than cats and as friendly as dogs (and just as smart if not more!)

Wich "he" are you talking about? I'm pretty sure that B will be mature about it. F probably will too, but I don't know him as well as B so I can't be sure. I think that if things don't go well, there will just be some awkwardness that will go away over time. I have a good feeling about this...

I have no children yet, but I like the way my parents deal with that sort of thing (though they are mono). If they ask you a question, they're ready to hear the (age appropriate) answer. If they don't ask, you don't have to explain. You don't have to hide it from your kids, but of course you...

So it seems that he doesn't regret it one bit :). Yesterday he came over, we made out (only cuddles and kisses for now, we're taking it slow) an watched YouTube. He was still here when boyfriend came back from work, and things were pretty much like before (he comes here very often already when...

That makes sense :) It's not that I'm scared of having experiences to figure out who I am (I wouldn't be poly otherwise) but I'm the type who wants to know what I'm getting into as much as possible (though I know I can't know everything in advance) and try to learn from other's experiences if I...

I already knew that it wouldn't always be sunshine and rainbows, but right now I'm just trying to figure out how bad it could get and how likely it would be to go bad. The friend is somewhat territorial (though only towards one person, it seems, and it's not my boyfriend), but I have no idea if...

I'm 20, my boyfriend is 27 and the friend is 24. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, one year as an open couple and about six months as poly. He is also my first partner, sexually and romantically. Things have been great all this time, with lots of communication, oppenness, etc...

So I'm really into one of my my boyfriend's best friends. And it turns out he's interested too (he kissed me yesterday)! But, my boyfriend and I are new to poly, and we're already slightly out of his comfort zone. I've talked about that kiss to him and he's worried that things might get really...