Recent content by inescarvalho

Hello, Thanks for the article. I'm reading it, and it's very useful because I was coming to that very conclusion. I appreciate your feedback and I'm positive somehow. Have a nice weekend, Inês

Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well. I'm here once more looking for advice. Bear and I have been in a relationship for over 3 years now. We're very passionate, loving and supportive of each other but we have a huge problem - we don't respect each other's space. We want to be together...

Thanks Kevin, I'm making a conscious effort not to. I don't know why I do that. Have a nice week Inês

I know... You're right. Thank you I think a week or 2. I was just nervous and sad and that's why I made such a poor choice of words without even noticing it. I do need to take my time with the idea, I'm just not ready. It is hard to take because I feel abandoned, lonely and unloved quite...

I know.. I completely agree with you. But Bear somehow doesn't get any of this and he means well but he gets very confused. For example, just because I asked him not to reveal certain details of our relationship he decided not to talk about it at all, not even with his friends. I don't think...

Yes, I've been trying to tell him that. But it's a process for him and I guess we need to have a real talk about it. Thank you

Hi Vicki Yes, not to mention the virus. You're right it was a poor choice of words. And I'm thankful that you pointed that out. You really helped me realize how I sometimes put things in way that only makes everything so much worse. I understand what you mean, this choice of words is...

Hi! Yes, all is good :)

Hi Magdlyn, Of course! Thanks for being so welcoming :) You're right, what's done its done and it was an opportunity for growth. In the end I'm happy that we all met. Yes I can understand that "meeting the parents" thing, I thought about that. Thanks for helping me to see Merida's side...

Hi everyone, So B and I have been opening up our relationship for a year now and we still have a lot to work on. At some point during this period B applied for a short term job offer (3months) in another country and got accepted. We had just moved to Berlin at the time together and we were...

Kind of Hello! Yes I kind of feel that way. Thanks for your question! B - my partner M - his date C - their longterm partner M and C have been in an open relationship for 2 years, so a lot longer than me and my partner. Ever since B met M he was giving me all this positive feedback and...

exactly! Hi! Thank you for your reply. I identify so much with what you're saying. We actually talked about that after the date (me and my partner). I always only feel nervous afterwards. Before and during the events I'm super chill and available. Thanks for sharing your personal thoughts and...

Hello, Thanks for being so reassuring, it really calmed me down. Have a nice day, inês

Moving forward Hi Kevin, I've been making the conscious effort of reaching out for helpful information, of communicating honestly with everyone involved including myself and of understanding what it is that i need to work on. And it's so reassuring because the more I work on this the more I...

Hello everyone, I'm new here, this is my second post. And I'm very grateful so far, I feel like for me having a supporting community is key in handling all this. So the other day me and my partner met with this person with whom he had only been on 3 or 4 dates. They're also in a long time open...