Recent content by itsazoo

No worries. He's not the first geographically illiterate American I've encountered.... :D

Maybe this arrangement isn't common with folks on this board, but it's hardly new in society. Check your Old Testament... not only normal, but actually required by law in some cases (marriage, not just dating). Also perfectly normal in other cultures around the world today. Think about it...

Indeed they do! Yes, I was thinking I'd need to chat with the gf long distance, but really, why not wait until she returns. All sorts of things could happen by then. Realistically, this thing with bf #2 isn't working for either of our partners, and harming existing relationships is not...

Ok, I get it... it looks like such a no-brainer now that the story is written down and I've come back to look at it again, lol. But lest someone take the bowling idea literally, it would surely be bf #1's last and final complete mortification to lose to bf #2 at bowling too! Besides the...

I don't know if this is the right area to post my situation and ask for advice. I started telling my story in Introductions (Hi from Canada). If this is better somewhere else, please move it, lol. Anyway, bf #1 is older, aging prematurely, and not up to much any more. This hasn't really been as...

I discovered this forum while searching the net for answers to things I'm going through right now with my two bfs. But I suppose I should introduce myself first :) I'm 44, divorced, and live with my adult daughter and our multitude of pets. My living arrangement is perfect as is, so haven't...