Recent content by jasaty

I personally don't like having sex with my husband on the same day as he has with his s/o. And I also want him to shower first. It's nothing against her or him, I just don't feel comfortable with it.

Been married almost a year and currently gf to karsh.

Thanks for your input, both of you. I truly appreciate all the help. GG, you have some amazing advice. I'm going to go over all of it again when I get a few moments alone to really come up with a plan. Yes. Thank you for seeing it that way. How do you let go of guilt? Specially when you...

Thank you. I want to talk as a group, but I have a terrible time with it. It's hard for me. I don't like letting others down or them getting angry/upset with me. I know it's a part of life but I tend to beat myself up over things. I know I have to learn to not let others dictate how I feel and...

GalaGirl, That sounds like an awesome way to manage everything.

I agree, talk to them and if you can schedule days with each so that they know when they can see you and not make plans for other things. I personally need a schedule. I live for schedules. Whether it's for our daughter or my own personal one. I'm not the type of person who likes things sprung...

I am sure the sun there is better. I can only assume that the weather is better overall. I am about 1.5 hours north of Detroit and lived in Southfield for about a year while going to school.

Thank you for the welcome! I assumed it would be quad, I just wanted to make sure there wasn't some other term out there that I didn't know of. :) Where at in Michigan did you live? Did you enjoy it here? -Sarah

I guess I could have pointed that out, thanks.

I hope someone has some input.

I read The Ethical Slut, but I didn't find it all that helpful. I'm looking for a new book that is geared more toward living life as a quad and all that it entails. I do love me a good book.

I'm looking forward to the advice everyone has. Though, this might get more answers if it was posted in the poly relationships corner.

I enjoy reading and scrapbooking. Though I barely have time to breathe these days so I haven't gotten to do much of either.

Talking about everything is essential. I am learning this as well. I just wish my husband would open up a little more with the talking. But, we are working on it. Enjoy your new relationships.

I agree, if you two aren't happy together then bringing someone else in will not help at all. I think you should take a step back and really look at your relationship and decide if you even want to be together.