Recent content by jeff1211

I thought I responded to the previous comment but will again. There is definitely more going on here than just the poly stuff. And K has a lot of issues that she is working on personally. I went into this understanding the differences in poly and swinging and actively trying to avoid the...

I think at the time she was trying to force herself to be that way for fear of losing me. Yes I am not the type of person to put hierarchy on relationships though I do recognize that we are married and have been together longer it does not make the relationship with G any less important to me...

Yes, I was very concerned for Gs feelings and have talked with her extensively about things. And you are right this isn’t a poly thing. We all thought (me and G at least) we were making progress towards a healthy triad. However it seems everyone ignored a lot of red flags. G has since said...

So I will try to be both comprehensive and brief. I am looking for advice on a situation I am in. I am not sure if this is unique but I'm also not sure how common it is. So my wife and I have been together 7 years and married for almost 2 years (in September). Previously we swung with other...