Recent content by JK40

Yes I suffer anxiety..and agorophobia and health issues..which is why it amazes me I even met AB in the first place lol. My mind tends to run away with itself conjuring up all the worst case scenario etc. AB does know all this about me and is up for the challenge 😀. He is really good at...

Oh and I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who took time to reply. It is appreciated and it has helped me.

I have no intentions of contacting her at all and AB never goes into details about his marriage to me, I respect their privacy as he does ours. It isn't about me wanting to interfere in their relationship or have any contact with wife. Like i say he has told me of previous issues they had but...

I am the last person to give advice on things like this..heck I can't even get my own head around some relationship subjects myself But.... wow.... it is so heart warming to read about and get a sense of the love and devotion in your relationship! Heads firmly screwed on I would say. Fantastic...

At first no, I wasn't happy at the thought of her knowing intimate details. By the way he didn't actually go into as much detail as she was asking, he told her out of respect for me that was private but all she needed to know is we do use protection. I wouldn't want to know details like that if...

I know that's one of my flaws....anticipating problems. I know I wold obviously think so but he is a really loving patient gentle man. I do think he is managing a difficult situation well

Oh no, I have no intentions of approaching her at all, I respect that she wishes to have that boundary. Their agreement is to keep it all seperate including details bitt hen she specifically asks AB details about our relationship. What I think most worries me is the extent she would go to in...

Through all dads games I just tried to be there for my son, listen to him and never bad mouth his father in front of or within ear shot of him. I tried to say dad loves you etc. But as I say dad cut all contact by his own choice and later moved and nobody knows where he is now. Which is all...

Please forgive me if I dont use termonology well...still new and dont know what all of it is. My partner (I will call Him AB) is married. His wife has said she wants her and his outside partners distinctly seperate. Nobody is to meet or know any details other than names. Ie she and I never...

Hi I havent been around for a while. I just saw your post and wanted to say how very sorry I am that you are going through this. It is always extremely difficult when things like this happen out of the blue. What i have learnt from talking to others on here and various sites i use...becoming...

I will never understand why some people try and use thier kids in these tug of war games, like it seems FP is with you. Yes you have little choice but go along with her rules, and that is difficult. Why can parents in situations like this not see it is the childs best interest to still habe...

As some of you are aware, I very recently began my first poly relationship. I didn't enter it lightly, for numerous reasons, some being: 1. I only broke up with my wife in December and didn't want it to be a rebound relationship. 2. I didn't actually know much about being poly 3. I felt like I...

I think galagirl has given some great advice there. Nobody should make you feel pressured into doing anything you do not want to, sex or otherwise. Are you saying your hubby has said he wants to leave you? If that is so then I am really sorry to hear that, it is an extremely difficult...

It sounds as if you have really grown as a couple since you last considered taking the first steps to being poly, which is a great thìng. As I am sure you are aware, going into poly relationships if there are issues in your relationship will only highlight those issues and probably amplify them...

I agree that you are not being unreasonable at all. You are not asking him for every tiny detail, as he is trying to say you are. It wouldnt hurt him to mention things like this. He could for example just say 'oh I met someone new I want to take on a date next friday'. You dont have to know...