Recent content by Juan234

Old thread. But. What if you vetoed him? No because you are more poly?

Are you interested in ENM?

This is unhealthy at so many levels. Do you have somewhere you can go to get help? At this point you need therapy. I am not a therapist and cannot make a diagnosis, but here is a quote you can Google: “People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed...

Welcome. I am interested in hearing more about your loves, how they developed, and how the move affected it all. I recommend using nicknames so that the privacy of all involved remains intact.

The original thread is from 2012. Many hopeful postings about developments of triads and particularly quads go unfinished. They are finicky balancing acts that like gambling in Las Vegas, easily report winnings to their friends but not the losses unless asked. Love is immense like the sky but...

I am interested.

I am impressed by how the focus of your last post was on him. You expressed true compassion. You are good for each other. And anyone’s sexuality is their own business. I am glad he broke away from that blackmailing person. Good for him. You two are good for each other. I hope you stay...

I am whispering so others cannot hear: Google “Swingathon”. AND I HOPE YOU FIND SOME POLY RELATIONSHIPS THERE! Wink wink.

Marriage can be an umbrella that protects from the rain. It sounds like you two may be on to sunnier days. Welcome friend!

Also scan to see who wants to give it. Life is a lot easier that way. And when you get gas, go with premium.

Nice username.

There will be another. -Yoda

BEST POST - EVER!!

Hi KittyRae, Welcome to the forum. I heard a lot about what does not work. Can you write down what does work and what your relationship goals are? How important is love, communication, and sex? If you can speak in specifics about individuals it may serve to clarify exactly what was said...

Trust your counselor. Does she have other issues, e.g., ADHD, autism spectrum, or manic depression? Do you have kids? I am not clear what the marriage issues are that she points out during your arguments. Is divorce an option for you? You sound like a rock and a foundation to your...