Recent content by JustaGuy2112

Thank you everyone, for your help and chatting with me. I believe I am ready to move forward from this issue. I don't believe everything is perfectly resolved, but I have been working on myself and comunicating with my GF. We are working through it. So again thanks for putting up with me, I...

I used to not be so emotional... Then I met my GF who I had a poly relationship with... Now, when she gets home, and we have a more in-depth talk, I'm scared I'll wind up in tears.

New question-- is it normal to doubt my own judgement? Like, am I really fine with my GF seeing someone else romantically, or do I just want her to have access to what she needs/wants?

I have been talking through this stuff with her when I can. I'm horrible with starting difficult conversations. If you know how to find out what triggers feelings, that would be great, because I have no clue what my triggers are. The feelings just come and go, or they stay and I stew in them for...

I still struggle with it, like, I will probably not be happy with knowing someone I love is doing... things with someone else. I was more okay with it before I became my current partner's primary. Now that I'm on the other side of that door, IDK. Can I tolerate it? Sure, in a parallel-poly way.

Even though we haven't met yet, they share some common friends, none of whom I like. Can I tolerate them for 30 minutes to an hour? Barely... Could I tolerate being near them if I knew they had a romantic interest? Absolutely not. Her friends have a "I know more about anything you have studied...

I didn't say anything about having her transition to monogamy. My issue, that I am trying to work through, is a dislike of her new partner, and mixed feelings of jealousy that I am trying to work through. I just need to talk to people with an unbiased opinion and see if it's something that I...

I'm new to this site. Did poly a while back and never knew or felt compersion. Several friends were lost because of it.

My long-time girlfriend and I started in a poly relationship, but have been monogamous for the last six years. She has expressed interest in dating another man, and I gave consent without too much thought. I mean, we did it before. What could have changed? Well, she found a guy she likes and...