Recent content by JustCurious83

Basically everything. Sex was working when I was there, which because of work I wasn't there often. We live 2.5 hours apart. Um, no there was no sarcasm in that statement. Shamanism is very much still a thing.

This is where my heart is.

There's no way to tell you quickly what the situation is so I'll just make it as brief as I can. Please don't take this as me blaming anyone because I'm not, I have screwed up just as much as they have. Up until about 2 weeks ago I was part of what was supposed to be a polifi triad, me BF and...

This was exactly my situation, minus the "sex only as a threesome." There were times when I was "allowed" to be intimate with only one or the other, but it was few and far between, until after the wife had her baby. 6 weeks of no sex is hard on any man, but especially one with an insanely high...

Preach it...

I can give you one explanation for these, as this has been my experience. The couple I am currently living with until I am literally back on my feet wanted me in their life so that they could have their cake and eat it too. They were swinging for a while, but the wife got tired of it, and was...

Update So, I know I told all of you I would update you on what is going on. I'm actually still here. I didn't have any other choice though. While driving to my interview I was in a horrible car wreak that put me in casts and braces. I've had to have around the clock care. I should be starting...

nycindie, I love the first link on your signature. That's a great read.

Updates I will keep you all posted. I appreciate all the advice and the support. I actually got a call this afternoon from one of the places I applied for a job with in the new town. I was surprised that called so quickly. I have an interview scheduled for the Monday after graduation.

I'm really not concerned about the whole "If I can't have her no one can" thing. He and I are pretty evenly matched when it comes to strength because I lift and take care of myself. I will still be careful though, I plan on making sure my back is to the door and he is further in the room than I...

Answers to questions Now that I've had some time to take all of the advice I have given into consideration I feel that I am ready to address your questions. First off, I have decided to move. The only thing keeping me here was them so since I am ending it there is no point in me staying. I...

Grieving I think my body and my emotions have already figured out that I'm done with being a doormat because I have cried all day, caused by that deep ache that comes from grief. I do still plan to talk to him and at least me be honest with him whether he decides to be honest with me or not...

This agreement actually was my request not his. Like I said I've been in abusive relationships and sometimes I still respond the way I was programmed to and believe it or not there are a lot of those that he has helped me overcome. Just another reason why I love him, I told him I wasn't happy...

That is absolutely terrifying... I'm going to have nightmares now.

If this is true and I sincerely hope it is not, what exactly are we Unicorns supposed to do? :(