Recent content by kapablekeri

Thank you for your words. I really appreciate it. It is just a big huge ugly mess. I have offered an open relationship to Bennet so he can still be with Cace, but he doesn't want that any more than I really do. Truthfully, I want to have sex with her. I am ok with it taking time. But she...

Brief synopsis Short synopsis of what I posted the other night-- My female partner, Cace, just told me she only wants to be my best friend. This is the third time in the past two years that she has done this. I am fearful that she is monogamous and continues lying about being polyamorous just...

I was reading one of your posts and you said you were going to Brissy soon... how was it?? Were you there before or after the flooding... amazing that the waters rose so high isn't it?? I used to live in the Redlands, outside of Capalaba... :) I miss it there :(

A long-term pattern vs working through a sticky issue This is a big one for me, because I always hang around while they are creating a pattern, but that is my co-dependent side, and there are all sorts of red flags for that. agreeing to accept less not being honest with what their (my) needs...

Good Evening, I posted a very long arduous convoluted post the other night. I am trying a different tack. I have an idea of what I want for a triad. I would like to know if anyone could give me some examples of triads that worked for them, or what they consider a triad would be. I am not...

Thanks for your insight, GS.

Thanks for the feedback. I will definitely do better next time. I am just going through it right now and needed some feedback. What you said makes a lot of sense.

continued Cace also admitted during this conversation that she had said whatever she needed to in July to come back into Bennet's life. Basically, on my end, my girlfriend just told me she wanted to be my friend. In my eyes, it is over between Cace and me. We talked about this repeatedly for a...

Good evening. My story is long so I will try to make it as brief as I can. I need help trying to understand. Let me preface everything that in my heart of hearts, I do not believe she wants me, just him. Three years ago we fell into a poly relationship. Bennet and I have been together on and...