Recent content by KitCatBar

Thank you for the welcome! I will mainly be lurking I think Thank you for your advice on the other thread. I am so glad I ended up talking to my partners and everything went well. I am working on my self-esteem, and plan on changing insurance when I can, since once ever 1-2 months is not enough...

Hahaha no worries! Everyone seems great here so far :) I see you also are part of a hinge relationship - me too! If my girlfriend and I broke up it would be two polycules... But we both said we can't see that happening! Strong hinges horray!

I'm not an apple user, so I can't be funny, sorry u_u

Thank you so much! Are the majority of people here newer then? I feel like I will always have a lot to learn. I am lucky to have a good size polycule (11 of us) and a lot of support from metamours. Unfortunately I think my partner's partner's monogamous husband is likely to divorce them... I...

Awww! I don't like chocolate (aside from white chocolate... I just don't like cocoa!) so I'm much more limited in my options haha

I do, a little guilty though haha. I always feel guilty when I focus too much on myself instead of others. Hmm, I think how they express that want is not enough for me. But the rest is right, yes Yes Yes Hmm, makes sense I could go without sex for the rest of my life, buuut, things with my...

Hello! Thank you for your words You are right. It felt unimportant to talk about compared to other stuff, but I will bring it up next time at at least dedicate some time to it. I do this all the time! The thing is, I could probably go without sex for the rest of my life and have a nice life...

Ahh sorry, I am only familiar with "bachi" as in a drumstick (for taiko drums). I do not know what batchi means!

Hello! I am choosing to stay anonymous on here, in case I need to ask for advice about my partners (which I already have haha). I am, however, terrible at forums. I am in my early thirties, and don't understand how time flew to get me to that point. That being said, I have three partners, who I...

[Update: So I followed advice here and just talked to all my partners. There were fairly short conversations (10ish minutes), but they said that we could talk about this more if I wanted, and reassured me. Skyler and I can to the realization that it wasn't so much sex as it was that he hasn't...