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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    I'm just going to wait and see how it unveils. We are going to therapist tomorrow. I'm a bit nervous because I never did it it my life, no idea what to expect. Don't know how it looks like, what to say and how, and how much to share, to open. Frankly I suspect I'll just be served with cliche...
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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    Welcome to distant family on old continent then ;) Anyway - on subject - yes, that's exactly that, simply "moral judging and shaming" thing. I'm just hoping to rebuild friendship with my crush now - we didn't really talk since my official confession to her. Except for my txt to her "we can't...
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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    You seem to understand the situation most thoroughly as you were/are in similar mess - minor consolation, but still! No, I'm not German, nor Muslim. I'm also straight and Klein is just my nick. It's Poland actually (yeah, catholicism, and I'm atheist btw) and nothing really drastic can happen...
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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    Oh, I forgot to mention: we have appointed a visit with therapist. What should I do if I get: "Yes, I know what polyamory is supposed to be and I think it's bullshit" vibe from therapist? Cut the crap and look for another?
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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    Thank you! I know it will eventually boil down to it. As for therapists, nobody on that list is even from my country. No surprise for me, though. :D
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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    Hey! Thank You for replying. I apologise for delay. I'm not always availablem and even if I am, I'm not always in mood for writing. It takes time to gather words sometimes. First of all, I'll certainly sift thorough publications list. Moving on now, I'll try to address everything. Yes, your...
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    Advice and thoughts on dealing with non-poly wife.

    My situation has couple of layers. I'm gonna point out them but don't feel like you have to address all of them. Anyway, as I mentioned in introduction, I'm married for nearly 18 years. And I really love my wife. That's undisputable part. I guess I always was inclined toward polyamory, I just...
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    Another one in the pack

    Greetings from Central Europe - And that's all details You will get from me ;) Married for nearly 18 years. One kid. Couple years ago discovered "polyamory" - as a relationship type and as a feeling and the term itself. And it's nothing but struggle! Ugh!
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