Recent content by LadyKismet

Thank you all for your advice. This is definitely not something I planned on doing overnight The heart just doesn't work that way. Rob is on the phone with Karen as we speak, and it warms my heart to the glow he gets on his face when he speaks to her. There is more to the story than what...

I've found that even the people that hurt you, within the shell of what happened, there lies a pearl of wisdom to be gleamed from the encounter. I believe whatever higher powers that be let them intersect your path for you each to learn something that you needed to learn at the time. It's not...

Ouch... It's a sticky situation. From my brief time in a poly relationship, I discovered that, without talking about emotions, there was no damned relationship at all. But it took my husband a while, and a lot of listening and 'not getting it' to come to the realization that if this wasn't...

Thank you, Red Pepper. You kind of confirmed what I'm hoping is the right thing to do. I am planning on sitting down with Rob and Karen in two weeks. I think she is on board. I'm hoping Rob can understand that I love him very much. It's hard for him to understand that there's space in your...

Thanks for your advice! I tell ya, every little bit helps. It's like feeling around in the dark, and I appreciate a little light shed of the subject! :)

Why thank you, sir ^_^ It's always nice to meet good people. Nice to meet you! :)

The beginning sentence should read, my husband Rob and I are linked with another couple, who are our best friends, or something along those lines. I hope it was implied, and I didn't annoy anyone.

"The voice of caution knows nothing of real joy." N. D Walsh

For the past 14 years, my husband Rob and I have been incredibly linked in so many ways. Jim and his wife Karen are closer to me than family. Yet there is a lot of spiritual and sexual tension surrounding us. I am bisexual, as is my best friend Karen. We are linked so strongly we know when...

Hello, my name is Heather. I believe I am poly, even though my husband is pretty much turned off on the idea now. We attempted a group of three before but it was disastrous. I believe now that the problem was that we were thinking strictly with our privates, and not our hearts, if I may be so...