Ending
The Poly wife, The confused Husband, the Boyfriend, the Therapist and the diary. You couldn't make this stuff up. At what point will one of you just see the ending here so everyone can move on?
Stark reality
At the end of the day a square peg does not fit into a round hole. Neither of you are going to budge so now what? just continue suffering along making things worse? One of you will have to pull the pin and start a new life
Hello Happytriad. not being critical but there are countless threads with many people in similar environments relating to this. What is it about your advice that you feel you needed to start this thread that countless others :)lack. :)
The guy who broke it off was a perfect balance against my primary partner and I REALLY miss him.
A perfect balance against my partner?? What do you mean by that? Are you not happy with your partner? It sounds that you are seeking love and not fun kn your life with other men. Do you consider...
You can stretch this out causing long term grief for yourself or simply walk away and start fresh with someone new and live the loving / peaceful life you obviously desire.
My partner of 7 years had an affair which i found out 2 weeks ago. She has now told me she wants an open relationship and wants to feel free.
It's clear you love her but i do think going by her actions her love for you maybe limited in which she is not truly revealing or simply non existent. If...
Your comments below do explain everything and nothing. You say you want a normal life and if asked to do so you could not say yes. I'm confused. Which is it that you want?
Your husband know's this and that's why he has walked away. I have read many of your comments in this thread and you...
The below extract sums it up perfectly.I think you believe it's a difficult situation when in reality it is at it's basic core. He wants to live a normal life with just you but he knows you would never do that and he simply wants a fresh start to find love and be happy.
My interpretation of "...