Recent content by lauren91

Yes I'm in the wait and see. I guess I knew there was no advice that could be really given, and I expected to hear people to tell me to leave him ...I'm aware I could be being blind to the truth but in that case it's more because people are telling me than because I think I am. I guess if it's...

Because I had already said no, but he said he really needed it and would do it with or without me. So I guess I chose with - but thought rather than have all the hard conversations and tears before she even agreed, to see if she was up for it first. I didn't think it through honestly. I told him...

When I wrote this she had already said she wanted to. I actually told my husband he should talk to her about it first, as I guess I assumed she would say no and the line could be drawn under this thing. I guess I wasn't ready for her to be up for it, and furthermore she didn't even take a dayto...

Thank you, I don't have children yet which in the future I might look back on and be super grateful for (that we didnt have children then him leaving me). It's what I want though, and my future was painted in my head with images of him as the father. I honestly think this is a mid life crisis...

thank you, i know there's no advice expicitly here....but as mentioned i feel so alone and it feels so nice just to be heard and understood. This means a lot.

neither me nor the other girl identifies as poly or bi. I am open to the poly thing but not the 3 way relationship. It's just a mess and i guess i wanted some kind of validation of if i'm being selfish in a poly person's eyes by not wanting this. I am open to the sex and even to an extent the...

This is a very nuanced case, and I guess i'm seeking perspective as much as advice (i don'tknow if there is any advice to be given). So I don't myself identify as monogamous nor poly - but have been in a monogamous relationship with my husband for the past 7 years. In the past couple of months...